love vs extra merital affairs

love vs affairs

If some one ask you before your wife about your affairs what would you answer to him? that's it affair is all about to hide because it is not legal(as per wife rules/ same to husbands also!). while love in some cases where restrictions are there you have to hide. you will find waste difference between love and affairs if you calculate. true love is rare to find and I count them in affairs list because they are nothing then affairs indirectly. for love you do not have to Google your mind because it is said that love happens. while affairs take great deal of your mind. you have to think about person, place and time. affairs are unsecured. love gives joy while affairs give only entertainment because you can not enjoy your partner's company as you are feared of catching by someone.


if you do love then you may be get respect after few times of rejections from society and from house but still there is inner respect towards you from people while affair does not give respect. it takes away everything, sleep, money, time and peace. I'll go for love. it is better to get a lifetime joy with respect rather than to find few minutes of enjoy for entertainment.